Finding The Empty Vessel

Finding The Empty Vessel

The words that came to me upon waking this morning were “empty vessel”. How well can I receive today? Not as in getting something from someone or something else, but receiving as in the energetic awareness that keeps me aligned with harmony, peacefulness, gratitude, patience, love, forgiveness, appreciation, joy, and wonder that always exists one or two perspective shifts away.

Self-care and COVID: How to shift from languishing to thriving

Self-care and COVID: How to shift from languishing to thriving

Three years into a global pandemic, self-care has never been more important for our mental health.

Living through the pandemic the past two years has been a rollercoaster of emotions for just about everyone. There’s no doubt that some people have taken the brunt of the burden, like front-line and essential workers. But almost everyone you talk to has experienced or is experiencing anxiety, feelings of overwhelm and being burned out.

What We Deserve - We must see ourselves as worthy.

What We Deserve - We must see ourselves as worthy.

#MentalHealthAwarenessMonth is acknowledging that more is needed than just a hashtag to nourish yourself. We are ALL at risk for increased stress, anxiety, negative thinking, you name it, and most of the time we can avoid our mental health pitfalls with a little commitment and consistency.

This I know is true.

This I know is true.

As we unfold, as we allow and try to heal, as we look at what no longer serves us well, what matters most is how we process and mindfully move through anything that comes our way. To come back to a place of equanimity so we can make choices and decisions that feel grounded, authentic, and conscious, this is how we can do the best we can.

5 Steps to Reduce Anxiety or Stress in the Moment

5 Steps to Reduce Anxiety or Stress in the Moment

As our world continues to shift and the stressors of these shifts bombard our senses, methods to pay attention and take care of ourselves emotionally, mentally and physically are needed now more than ever. Below are five, simple and immediate ways to bring awareness, calm and shift our patterns when triggered by stressful and anxiety-provoking situations.

The Constant Companion and the SuperPower

The Constant Companion and the SuperPower

I feel its presence every day, some days stronger than others. It sits with me like an old friend who doesn’t need conversation, or to fill the space with meaningless chatter. Its presence gently reminds me to remember compassion for myself and others, to never forget grace and gratitude, and to make space for embodied attention.

When Gratitude Is Hard to Find

It does happen, failure to feel grateful, I mean. There are times when our pain or anxiety is so strong, it’s easier to surrender into the downward spiral than reach out and grab hold to stay afloat. Many of us have been in the darkness before, and the familiarity can be a comfort, despite all the pain it invokes.

My anger, my most prolific teacher.

My anger, my most prolific teacher.

In my mind, no other emotion exposes my hidden truth more than anger. Anger, in all its fury, is powerful enough to turn us into something we are not, clandestine enough to hide and fester in our subconscious, and intense enough to bring explosive and destructive consequences, causing more shame, regret, pain, and grief.